I know that if I let my friends let him know, he'll probably hate it even more than if I tell him myself.ĭo you particularly need that person to like you ?

Should I tell the person, whom I did not like, the truth ? Just try and convince your friends to keep this a secret. But for now, I say, don't go up to them out of the blue and tell them you hate them. NOPE! I don't know the connection you have with that person or what actually makes you hate them, so I can't comment on that further. So, should you go tell the person that you hate, that you hate them? They will be on your side, only if you have been good to them. If you are trustworthy, you will attract friends who would like you to trust them as well. If in the past, you have failed to keep their secrets, it's possible that they won't bother keeping yours a secret. It's important that you are a trustworthy person to your friends. Next time be careful who you tell your secrets in the first place. You cannot control others or expect them to hold your secrets for you. Hope it's not such fake friends in your circle. Some friends may secretly hate you, and go behind your back intentionally causing you harm. Hope your friend values your trust and friendship more than such trades. Secrets may sometimes end up being valuable information worth trading for something in return.

They may get carried away talking about stuff to others and expose it unintentionally. Tell them the seriousness of the possible consequences, otherwise, they might not consider it a secret worth keeping. Tell your friends that it is a secret, in case they're clueless that it is. To prevent your friends from spilling your secrets, you should look at how they could possibly do it. Do not let your secrets out in the first place, unless you absolutely trust your friends to keep it. Trust is one of the pillars of friendship. Guard it from people who think can blurt it out to others during social gatherings.Once you share it, a secret has a life of its own. However, it’s a good thing that people consider you a confidant who can keep their secrets safe. Sometimes it takes too much to protect secrets. If you’re a loyal secret keeper, then count your blessings. Tell yourself that you’ve buried it and that it would never surface back. Write it on a piece of paper and tear it later. The best way to bury a secret is to destroy it. Animals can be best confidant and your secret will be completely safe with them. It may sound totally irrelevant, but it truly helps if you get your secret out in front of your pet. If your secret is the reason of mass destruction, then you will have to hide it by lying. They say, lying for a good cause is socially acceptable. At such times, it’s wise to change the topic of the discussion and take away the attention from the topic at hand. Change the topic if necessary.Īt times, you will be cajoled to share secrets.

There's some kind of mysterious air around you when keep your secrets to yourself. The best way to keep a secret is to keep it with yourself and not confess it to anybody, even to your better half. Your secret is safe when you can't remember what it is. It helps if you are forgetful.įorgetfulness, like ignorance is bliss. Pretend that it never happened and forget about it. Remember how Ajay Devgn keeps his family’s secret in ‘Drishyam’? The best way to keep a secret is to be in denial. Either confess it in front of a confidant if you have to get it off your chest, but never put it to paper. However, there is the danger of someone reading it in your absence. Many people are in the habit of documenting their secrets in a diary or even on a blog. So if you don't tell anyone about it, it stays with you till you die. The safe place for your secret is the grave. Here are some foolproof ways to keep secrets from everyone. Therefore, it’s necessary to guard them from gossip mongers who then trespass your privacy. And secrets die when they turn into gossip. It’s a human nature to pass on juicy pieces of information from one ear to the other.

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